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Ahh… Vacation

October 26, 2010

IMG_2989We took a vacation a few weeks ago.  It was the first vacation Zach and I have taken in over 4 years.  The last one was a cruise when I was 4 months pregnant with Xander.  This was also our very first family vacation.  So where did we go?  Cape Hatteras, NC.  We rented a house on the beach with another family who has children the same age (quite literally, 1 month older than Xander and 4 days older than Parker).  It takes roughly 15 hours to drive there.  We left on a Thursday night and drove to Washington DC.  We arrived at 3:30 am.  Boy were we tired!  But, it was worth it.  The kids slept most of the way, although Xander shocked us by staying awake until 10:15 pm!  He passed out just before we reached the George Washington Bridge in NYC.  On Friday we went to the National Zoo and to the Natural History Museum and the Air and Space museum.  It was pretty awesome because all of the Smithsonian museums and the Zoo have free admission, so we saw as much as we wanted to, and then moved onto the next spot without feeling grumpy about how much money we had spent on admission.  We slept a second night in DC and then got up on Saturday and drove the rest of the way to NC.

Once there, the 8 of us settled into the house.  The view was beautiful, and being able to walk out the door and onto the beach was awesome.  The mosquitoes were a little too friendly for my taste, but they mostly left us alone when we were in the sun.  We spent several days just hanging out in the sand and sun.  The weather was beautiful.  The kids had so much fun running in and out of the waves.  And in the evenings, we sat on the couch and sucked up the free wireless (which was wonderful for those of us without home internet access) and often spent a little time in the hot tub before bed.  After 5 fun-filled days on the beach, we packed up again and headed out.

The ride back North was much more stressful.  We left at 11am, and by 3pm the kids had had enough of the car.  They were tired, and cranky, and sick of being cooped up.  We had to stop more often, and the frequent stops were stressing Zach out.  By 9pm we had arrived in New Jersey.  We stayed at another Marriott.  The first one was quite nice.  And while this room was slightly larger, the beds were hard as a stone slab.  It was a very uncomfortable night of restless sleep for the 4 of us.

On Saturday morning we got up and drove into New York City.  We stopped at Liberty Park and found a pretty awesome playground.  The boys had a blast running around and it was nearly deserted which was nice for us.  The wind was pretty unbelievable there, and after about 1/2 an hour we were all ready to retire to the protection of the car.  Then we drove into the city.  Xander enjoyed looking at the tall buildings for a little while.  Parker fell asleep.

We parked near Central Park, and walked through it.  I think Xander would have loved a horse-drawn carriage ride, but we didn’t really want to spend $50 on that sort of novelty.  They both had lots of fun at the playground  in Central Park, which was great.  Then we walked to FAO Schwartz.  And they of course fell in love with the giant toy store.  My favorite part was how much fun the employees were having.  It’s all staged of course, but in nearly every corner, there was an employee playing/demoing some new, fun toy.  They had hackey sacks and tossing games; skateboards and digital music displays and even a story hour.  Parker found a giant meerkat stuffed animal and fell in love.  It was (of course) $60 and much more than we wanted to spend on a stuffed animal.  Then Xander discovered it, and also fell in love.  We pried both boys away and wandered back through the store, trying to find a small souvenir, something more reasonably priced.  As we were walking out Zach told me that he had fallen in love with the giant meerkat as well, and really, how many times are you a little kid in FAO Schwartz?  I agreed.  Both boys were tired and hungry and starting to melt down, so we decided I would start walking towards the pizza place we were planning on for lunch (how can you go to NYC for the day and not have pizza for lunch?) while Zach got them their toy store souvenir and poked his head into the Apple Store next door.

As we walked to the restaurant I reminded Xander that he would have to share the toy with Parker and that the two of them would need to take turns, be good brothers, blah, blah, blah.  Zach caught up with us, and placed a large bag on the stroller, telling Xander that he had to wait until we got to the car to open it.  Surprisingly, Xander didn’t argue this point.  We ate some fabulous NYC pizza, although the restaurant we ended up at didn’t seem very kid friendly.  The hostess sort of sneered at our stroller, and the waitress took nearly a million years to even come for our drink order.  It’s the one time that cranky kids in a restaurant are useful – if you let them make a little noise, someone eventually pays attention to you!

Then we found our car.  It took a long time for the attendants to bring it up, and we were hot and tired, and ready to get home, so it probably felt even longer.  We finally got both boys buckled in, and then Zach opened up the bag and brought out not one but two giant meerkats.   The boys’ reactions were priceless and they were so beyond happy.  They laughed and giggled the whole way out of the city.

A few hours later, Zach mentioned that we needed to find an alternate route around Keene, since the pumpkin festival was going on that day.  We had been planning on stopping in Lempster to pick up Oscar from Zach’s parent’s house, and Keene is the most direct route.  I suggested that perhaps we shouldn’t find an alternate route, but instead should see if we could get a reasonable parking spot.  This is the last year that the current company is hosting the pumpkin festival.  Unless someone takes it over, it’s the last one.  I didn’t want our children to miss out on a Keene pumpkin festival, so we decided to swing by.  We got there at 8:30 pm.  We were lucky enough to park at the post office in Keene and did a brief tour of the thousands of pumpkins all lit up.  Then we were back in the car by 9pm and in Lempster by 9:30.  We slept in Lempster that night, and finally returned to our house the following morning.

It was a long but fun-filled vacation.  Parker got a bit roughed up by North Carolina (I’ll do a follow up post on that) and didn’t sleep well at all, which meant that Zach and I slept next to each other for a total of 1.5 nights during the 10 day vacation, but other than odd sleeping arrangements it was a blast!  The boys seemed to have a great time, and Zach and I had lots of fun doing new things and showing them around a few new parts of the country.

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This Boy…

August 4, 2010
Cheese!

Cheese!

This boy challenges me in ways I never could have expected.  I am his favorite at the moment and any other adult is just not acceptable.  During one-on-one time he is the most fabulous child.  He laughs and plays, he is helpful and happy and cooperative.  And then life returns to normal with additional family members and my little guy gets so upset.  He is obstinate and uncooperative and just plain grumpy.  He is our high and low child.  When he is good he is oh so good but when he is mad, oh boy watch out.  Regardless of the highs and lows I am so totally in love with him – even when he hits me and calls me “bad mommy”.  Apparently I can just give him a chocolate cupcake and all is forgiven…

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Friends

June 28, 2010
Parker still refuses to pose for pictures - this was the only non blurry one I managed of the two of them...

Parker still refuses to pose for pictures - this was the only non blurry one I managed of the two of them...

If you read my last post you already know that we’ve been pretty busy lately.  This means that Zach and I sometimes are running in different directions (usually him out in the yard trying to pick up or mow or plant things while I’m busy cleaning or cooking inside) and when it works out, the boys are left playing on their own.  This doesn’t mean they are locked away in some room by themselves, but they are in the living room or the play room while I bee-bop around them.  On both Saturday and Sunday this weekend they amazed me with their ability to play so well together.  On Saturday they played together for over an hour without a single tear or screech and no interaction with me.  I watched from the kitchen while they played (mostly with a big cardboard box) for an entire hour.  It reinforced my belief that kids really do love their siblings, and although they fight like cats and dogs some days, there are other days when they are the best of friends and at least in our house, at least for now, they play more than they fight and I love it!

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Parties and more parties

June 18, 2010

We tend to be a pretty busy family.  It is rare for us to have a weekend with absolutely no plans.  Summer time tends to increase the number of activities we have any given week or weekend.  This summer is proving to be especially crazy.  I think I’m going to have to start adding “event planner” to my business cards soon.

Next weekend we’re having a 1.5 birthday party for Parker.  We decided that December 30th was difficult to celebrate.  We of course celebrated with family – had a small brunch and cake with a candle, but we didn’t do an all-out party like with did for Xander’s first birthday.  We instead decided that we’d celebrate half birthdays in the summer time (at least until Parker is old enough to make an informed decision on when he would prefer to celebrate).  So, we’re doing his party at 2pm, and then a housewarming party the same day at 5pm.  We’ll have people coming and going all day long.

A few weeks after that, Zach is hosting a bachelor party at our house (the kids and I are relocating for the evening)

September will see a bridal shower and then Xander’s birthday party.

October I am the maid of honor in a wedding.  I’m also the defacto wedding planner.  These are just the events that I’m personally planning.  This does not include the dozens of other parties and events we are attending this summer.

For example, this weekend Parker is spending his first night with Grammy and Grandpa just him (he and his brother have always slept over as a package deal).  Zach and I are taking Xander to see Toy Story 3 and he’ll run some additional errands with us in “the big city” then we’ll help some friends prepare wedding decorations for their celebration next month.  Sunday we’ll travel again to visit with Dads.

Other events this summer?  Well, this is what I can remember off the top of my head, but I’d have to check calendars for things that I’m surely missing:

- Bridal Shower

- July 4th (no plans yet, but we’ll have some – fireworks, barbecue, something…)

- Thomas the Train Experience

- Trip to the ocean

- Clark’s Trading Post

- Baby Shower

- Trip to the beach

And that is just through July.  August isn’t firmed up yet.  Sometimes I wonder if we over schedule ourselves or our kids.  On the other hand, they really do love the extended family, and many of these trips include people near and dear to our hearts.  It’ll be busy, and the week nights are filling up as well, but hopefully we’ll have some fun, make some good memories and maybe sometimes remember to bring along a camera ;-)

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Time…

June 10, 2010

I never realized how much I took time for granted until I had kids (and really, multiple children – looking back, one seems like a piece of cake!)  These days I sometimes hear someone talk about their weekend, how they “puttered around in the yard” and took a nap.  Or sometimes I’ll hear college students complain that they are bored.  These types of comments start a subtle twitch near my eye.  Words like bored and nap (unless referring to a child’s nap) left my vocabulary 4 years ago.

Now there is never enough time.  Not enough time to sleep, not enough time to clean the house or put away laundry.  Not enough time to cook real food or play with my children.  Everything I do is done quickly and usually half-assed because there isn’t time for more.  This past weekend is a perfect example of what our lives are like:

Friday night – Zach played golf with some friends from work.  Sara took the boys home, fed them dinner, bathed and put them to bed.  No time for playing or enjoying children, just time to get the bare necessities done.  Then a little time for folding laundry.

Saturday – We are all up by 7am.  We shower and get the kids dressed and fed and leave the house by 10am.  We have to stop at a friend’s house because Zach forgot his laptop and keys in the car when he was dropped off after golf the previous evening.  Then we rush south to the nephew’s baseball game.  We are 15 minutes late (as usual).  We move from the baseball game to the niece’s softball game.  This one is slightly more stressful with Parker because there is a dirt road behind the dugout with  a slow but steady stream of traffic, and Parker thinks that running into the road is the best game ever.  After the softball game we grab some lunch with the family.  Then we pop into Lowe’s for a housewarming present, and head to a housewarming party (both kids crash in the car, which is a relief).  We stay at the party for several hours until Parker starts with the ear piercing screaming.  Zach and I have gotten used to it (the hearing loss helps I think) but we didn’t want to subject the rest of the crowd to his noise.  We got home in time for me to jump in the shower to rinse 8 hours of sweat (it was sooo very hot and humid that day) and dirt off before a friend arrived to bring me to a bachelorette party.  I arrived back home at 2:30 am.  My sweet husband let me sleep until 9:30 the next day, then we rushed to feed the kids brunch before heading out the door for a birthday party.  We arrived home Sunday night at 8:30 pm.

The piles of laundry and dishes and general house tidiness that I ignored last weekend are shameful.  The lawn is ridiculously shaggy.  The litter box has been ignored for far too long.  The list goes on and on.  Children are a choice.  Zach and I chose this lifestyle and 80% of the time I am completely satisfied with it.  However, when I hear about spontaneous vacations, naps on lazy afternoons, boredom, and a thousand other things that I no longer have now, that ugly green jealousy monster rears it head.  There is just never enough time…

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