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Xander Week 79 - Mon Key!

June 12, 2008

IMG_1954.JPGXander could not be less interested in stuffed animals. We don’t have a ton, but we’ve got a respectable amount - we’ve got bears and elephants and dogs, and giraffes, and frogs, and turtles, and ducks, etc. Anytime we tried to play with stuffed animals with Xander, he just tosses them over his shoulder, and goes in search of a more interesting toy. After a while, we stopped trying. Last Sunday Xander noticed the Curious George stuffed animal in his pack n’ play. My mother purchased this for Xander a while ago, when we discovered that he loves Curious George (or in Xander-speak, George George). So, when he saw George, he said “Mon Key!” Two distinct words, but a pretty good imitation of “monkey”. He picked up “Mon Key”, gave him a big hug, and carried him around the house for the rest of the day.

Zach and I were baffled - Xander had never expressed any interested in anything plush before. Mon Key is cute, and soft, but he doesn’t seem any different from any other stuffed animal in the house to us. To Xander, he is Mon Key - the monkey that needs hugs from everyone (Zach and I must also hug Mon Key on a regular basis) and pats on the back, and juice, etc. He has eyes and ears, and makes Xander giggle, so I can’t complain. It’s fascinating to me that Xander seemed to wake up one day, and find a best friend in a stuffed animal that he couldn’t care less about the day before. I’m still trying to figure out what makes that kid tick!

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Xander Week 68 - A Love Of Electronics - A Sign Of The Times, Or Just A Personality Trait?

February 7, 2008

IMG_0503Xander loves electronics. Any type of electronics. Cell phones, telephones, televisions, laptops, desktop computers, remote controls, etc. If it lights up and does something interesting, he wants it. It doesn’t matter that half of his toys light up, or that he’s got a respectable collection of old remote controls that don’t have batteries. Those are not interesting - not when there are laptops with so many buttons to push and cell phones with those itty bitty power buttons that need to be turned on. Sometimes I think there is some sort of magnet in Xander’s head that draws him toward LCD displays. This leads me to wonder if this is just a sign of the times. We have so many electronics in our house that of course Xander and every other child born after the year 2000 is completely comfortable with all of this technology. Or is it just Xander? Is this part of his personality? Either way, I worry that maybe too much technology will be too much of a good thing. Should we limit the amount of time Xander spends pushing buttons on the telephone or “playing” video games with Dad (he carries a spare controller around the house while Zach is playing)? Do we really want to fight those battles? There are already so many battles with a toddler, do we really want to add electronics to the list? Is it bad that he’s so enamored with technology?

Will he be too dependent on technology as he grows up, or will this be a lifestyle choice that will lead him to wealth and happiness? Maybe we should be encouraging his technology interests more - will he be able to keep up with emergent technology It’s so hard to know, and as with any parenting decision, I’m not sure we’ll know the ramifications of our decisions until much later in Xander’s life - if ever.

On a side note, Someone showed me this video the other day, which then started me thinking about all of these things in different ways, which then prompted me to blog about it.  It’s a very interesting commentary on technology and our children.

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