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Ahh… Sleep!

December 2, 2009

We are pretty much settled into our rental house now.  Xander is sleeping in a queen size bed and across the hall Parker is in his crib.  For the most part, we’ve been sleeping blissfully well.  Parker has been sleeping straight through from 7:30/8:00pm to 6:30/7:00am without a peep! We have never been a “cry-it-out” family.  This resulted in Xander sleeping in our bed until well into his second year.  Parker has always slept in his crib, but I would often cuddle him to sleep and then put him down.  Recently he’s been rather disagreeable about cuddling before sleep.  So, a few nights ago I let him cry it out.  It took 12 long minutes, but then he fell asleep.  We tried this with Xander when he was a baby, but when Xander woke up it would be the middle of the night, and he wouldn’t stop until you picked him up, so we gave up pretty quickly.  Last night after we read books, I tried to cuddle Parker for a few minutes but he would have none of it, so after lots of hugs and kisses I put him in his crib, covered him up and walked out.  He squeaked maybe twice and then fell silent.

I feel like we’ve finally turned a corner when it comes to sleep in our house.  Parker’s been sleeping great for almost 2 weeks now, and Xander has occasionally woken up, but most nights goes back to sleep quickly.  Ahh… Sleep – it’s a wonderful, wonderful thing ;-)

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Parker Week 32 – He Slept!!!

August 12, 2009

A few nights ago I thought my baby might never sleep again.  He slept three hours that night, and they were not consecutive.  I’m not sure how I made it through work without falling asleep in my chair.  But last night, oh last night was blissful.  Zach put Parker to sleep just after 7pm.  We’ve got a good bedtime routine now – bath, dinner, books, bottle, bed.  Xander was in bed and books read and lights out just about 8pm (after two trips to the bathroom and a lengthy discussion of what we were doing tomorrow).  Zach and I were both in bed by 11pm.  Xander woke me around 4ish looking for his binky, but that was a quick trip.

Then at 5am I woke myself, completely paranoid that Parker must have stopped breathing.  Usually he wakes us pretty consistently 3 times each night.  Once around 11pm, then again sometime between 2am and 3am, and then finally around 5am.  If we’re lucky, we can get him back to sleep for another hour or so after that last time.  This has been our routine for a few months now.  It’s not great, but we’re used to it, and we’ve been hopeful that someday soon Parker would start to grow out of at least one of those middle of the night wake-ups.

Knowing that I would not be able to return to slumber without checking, and also knowing that I had a 50% chance of waking the baby up, I went into Parker’s room to check.  He had somehow done a complete 180 degree flip in his crib, and was sleeping on his stomach, but he was breathing and since I hadn’t yet woken him, I didn’t want to mess with him by flipping him back over, etc., so I crept back to bed, and smiled the blissful smile of a parent whose child has just slept through the night for the first time in a long, long time.

Let me repeat that – he slept through the night!  7pm to 6:15am!  Over 11 hours straight!  When I got him dressed this morning I told him that he needs to repeat that performance every night from now until the day he moves out of our house.  And since all little boys listen and follow their mommies exact instructions, I’m sure that will happen any day now ;-)

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Parker Week 8 – The Magic Changing Table…

March 3, 2009
Sleepy Baby...

Sleepy Baby...

The changing table in our house appears to have some sort of magic ability in it to put Parker to sleep.  When he is fussy, the changing table will calm him.  If we buckle him onto it and take a shower, we often get out to find him fast asleep.  Parker has taken more than one morning nap on that changing table.  When Xander takes a bath in the evening, Parker often naps on the changing table.  If I’m working on laundry, sometimes Parker naps on the changing table.  I have no explanation for what is so special about this spot.  The pad is curved, but he is tucked into plenty of curved or walled spaces and they don’t all have this effect.  Whatever the reason, the changing table is a happy place for Parker, and regardless of why, we certainly appreciate it’s magical powers!

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Xander Week 5 – Are Parenting Books Useful?

October 26, 2006

XanderIn typical Sara fashion, I have been doing as much research as possible on parenting. Now I’m not sure if the information was helpful or just stressed me out. You see, when I read through the books I find that I’m not doing half of what they suggest. Then I worry that I’m not stimulating my baby’s development enough, or that I’m fostering bad habits in my kid.

This week I attempted to follow a suggestion in my Baby Whisperer book. The author, Tracy Hogg suggested that at about 6 weeks you can “cluster feed” your baby to encourage the baby to sleep through the night. To cluster feed, you feed your baby every two hours at night – for example, at 6 pm then 8 pm the 10:30 or 11 pm. This last feeding is referred to as the dreamy feeding, as the baby should be sleeping by the end of it. Then, without burping or anything you can put your baby to sleep and in theory he or she should sleep through the night.

So, this week I tried to cluster feed Xander. Instead of being sleeping at the 10:30 pm feeding, he was wide awake and stayed that way until 2:30 am. At 3 am I gave in and fed him again. He slept from 3 am to 6 am, and that was the only sleep we got that night. Granted, Xander is only 5 weeks old, but since I have seen him sleep 6 hours at a stretch, I didn’t think this would be too much for him. Maybe cluster feeding works for some kids, and maybe it will work for Xander eventually, but at the moment, it was the longest night we’ve had so far, and I was definitely questioning the wisdom of this particular baby book by 3 am. The theory seems logical, but in practice it was quite miserable.

So, if anyone has any suggestions for great parenting books (I already have What to Expect In the First Year of course) and/or any suggestions on how to encourage babies to sleep through the night, I’d love to hear about them!

Ps. I think I should get a special pat on the back for writing this post while nursing Xander ;-)

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