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Where to begin?

January 4, 2012

I can’t even remember the last time I posted something here. There are plenty of reasons – the same as many stale blogs, lack of inspiration, time and eventually guilt from being silent for so long. I’d like to get back into the swing of regular posts and the start of a new year seems like as good a time as any to make that attempt.

So, to recap, it was a busy year. Xander started kindergarten. Parker moved into the purple room at day care. We attempted potty training for about three months (the dryer was broken for two of those months. The word hellish comes to mind when I think back on it) but eventually decided to take a break when we reached a stalemate – he was fine with peeing in his pants as long as we changed him after. I was not fine with that arrangement. Parker turned three last week (the fact that my baby is now three could be an entirely separate post). Xander is learning to read which is super exciting for us. I’ve been at my current job for over a year now. I continue to love the day to day work and the interaction with college students but regularly the higher level politics provides new challenges and headaches that I long to ignore.

Parker has gotten into the habit of being my cheerleader. If I kill a bug for him or do well in a game we are playing he’ll tell me ‘good job mom!’ he also calls us mom and dad more than mommy and daddy lately. It sounds cute with his little voice but is slightly disconcerting.

We had a wonderful Christmas filled with friends and family and lots of time to play with the boys. On our last day of vacation we were lounging in our pajamas and watching Toy Story 3. In the beginning of the movie there are several flashbacks to the boy, Andy playing with his toys. Shortly into the montage, Xander pipes up and says ‘hey, he has all of the toy story toys’ after Zach and I stopped giggling we reminded him that we were actually watching toy story the movie… Kids… ;-)

So, we’re good. Looking forward to all that 2012 has in store, and hopefully finding time to blog again.

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Xander Week 109 – Best Friends…

March 13, 2009

As I was tucking Xander into bed last night, he told me that he wants to tell Leanne that she is his best friend. Leanne attends the same day care, but she’s a few years older than Xander (I think she’s 4). They play together often, and the staff has mentioned that Xander is the only one Leanne will share toys with, so I know they have a pretty good relationship (for preschoolers).

On the other hand, I know that girls can be fickle (and toddlers change their minds faster than their little legs can run), and that Leanne might already have a best friend or a group of friends that doesn’t include Xander.

This morning Xander was still intent on telling Leanne that she is his best friend, and he was disappointed when Leanne wasn’t in the room when we arrived at day care (he is usually one of the first kids there). But, she will arrive eventually, and Xander will get an chance to play with her at some point…

So today I have my fingers crossed that this pretty little 4 year old girl won’t crush my son’s cheerful spirit with a toss of her hair.

I didn’t think this kind of worry was supposed to start until much, much later – how do parents survive their kid’s potential heartache? This is awful, and in the grand scheme of things it’s really so insignificant. I just don’t know what I’ll do if Xander comes home in tears because Leanne doesn’t want to be his best friend. In my (not so humble) opinion, who wouldn’t want to be best friends with my kid?

I guess the only thing to do is keep my fingers crossed and hope that it all turns out well. Maybe Xander and Leanne will be best friends today, and next week maybe they’ll each find a new best friends – I can hope, right?

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