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Helpful Tips For Working Moms

September 24, 2009

Here are just a few helpful tips from one working mom:

If you happen to commute to work with your husband, it’s a good idea to make sure that he hasn’t taken your car keys and his car keys when he leaves for an early 7am meeting.

When attempting to reach said husband, it’s a good idea to make sure you are sending text messages to him and not to your friend (sorry about the early morning, slightly grumpy texts Jenny!)

While waiting to be rescued from your stranded position at home, you should probably insist that your toddler use his stool to go pee or else you’ll end up cleaning your entire bathroom (for the thirteenth time that week).

While attempting to keep urine off your bathroom ceiling, you probably shouldn’t assume the buckle on the changing table will actually restrain your 8-month-old because he’ll be crawling off of it any second.

It’s probably a good idea to wipe your urine soaked hands on something before rescuing said baby.

You’ll want to grab a burp cloth after you get the poopy diaper on the baby changed, because he’s going to start spitting up all over your floor, and if you’re not quick, he’s going to crawl through it and smell like baby vomit all day.  You’ll also want to break out the carpet cleaner because yeah, he’s going to spit up there too.

When your husband finally arrives home, it’s probably a good idea to already have the kids in their shoes and coats and ready to walk out the door and not upstairs in a bedroom with toys everywhere, or he might be annoyed at you for making him leave in the middle of his meeting and then not being ready when he comes to return the keys he stole rescue you.

Just a few friendly tips from me to you so you don’t end up debating whether it would be better to crawl back into bed and wait for tomorrow or keep going because what else could possibly go wrong?

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Xander Week 128 – Bye Bye Binkies!

August 28, 2009

Sometimes it feels like just a few weeks ago I was waddling around in the middle of August with a belly that didn’t seem to end, or walking up and down my street, pausing for every contraction and hoping that soon I’d be ready to go to the hospital, or giving Xander his first bath, or getting peed on again because we hadn’t yet figured out the brilliance of a “pee-pee cloth”.

When Xander was 4 months old we started him in day care.  It was so hard for a few weeks, I was so filled with guilt about sending my kid off to be cared for by someone else.  Then I discovered how much he loved it there, and how much they loved him.  He made friends, and looked forward to going.  Our day care is divided into 4 rooms – the Yellow (baby) room, the Green (toddler) room, the Purple (pre-pre school) room and the Blue (pre-school) room.  Xander has been in the Green room for about a year now.  When he first moved up, he was more than ready – his best friend (who is a month older) had moved a few months earlier and he was really not interested in playing with the babies or with the baby toys anymore.

We’re struggling with his readiness to move again.  As before, his friend moved up at the start of the summer.  And as young boys sometimes do, his friend will tell him that he cannot play in the Purple room.  A few weeks ago the older 2 rooms went on a field trip to ride on a train.  Xander was just crushed that he couldn’t go too.  And to add insult to injury, one of the older boys was apparently naughty and unable to go, so he spent the day in the Green room with Xander.  When Xander got home he asked us if it was just naughty boys who couldn’t go on the train ride (he was thinking that he had somehow been naughty as well and that was why he wasn’t allowed to go) – that one was difficult to explain and thankfully the last one we have to weather before he can go on field trips!

Today is Xander’s last day in the Green room.  Preparation for the Purple room has been a lot more intensive.  We knew at the start of the summer that he would be moving up in a few months, but to get there, Xander needed to be potty trained.  This proved to be a great motivator for Xander.  And he did great with potty training.  We still have an occasional accident, but those are few and far between.

The other requirement was for Xander to finally get rid of his binkies.  Yes, we are those parents who have delayed and delayed taking away the pacifier.  And Xander is that kid who is still attached to it.  He doesn’t ‘need’ it anymore, but he still enjoys having it when we let him.  I think part of our hesitation was a friend of ours telling us that they took their youngest son’s pacifier away when he was 3 and he hasn’t been the same since (he is starting 1st grade this year).  That sort of worried us into not making a decision.  Xander is comfortable with leaving his binky in the car when we go places, and when it’s out of site, it’s out of mind.  But, every day when I pick him up from day care, the first thing he does is look for his binky in his car seat (where we leave it in the morning when I drop him off).

All summer we have talked to Xander about giving up his binkies.  We decided that Xander could “sell” them at a local bookstore (where our friend happens to work) for some books and toys.  The day has finally come, and tomorrow we will make the trek to Meredith to finally make the “trade”.  I think Xander is looking forward to it, and he is certainly excited about it, but sometimes I wonder if he really understands the ramifications of it.  I wonder if he truly understands that tonight will be the last night he will ever get to fall asleep with a pacifier in his mouth.  I think and hope that he is ready, but I also think and fear that we are going to have a few long nights adjusting to falling asleep binky-less.  (As a lucky happenstance, he is spending tomorrow night with his aunt and uncle, so we’ll miss his first binky-free night!)

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Dilemma

July 25, 2009

So, when you are home alone in a house with a 6 month old baby, and a 2 year old boy, and the sleeping baby wakes up screaming while the 2 year old is pooping on the “big boy potty” what do you do?  Well, if you’re me, you let the baby scream for a minute or two, and then realize that the poop project might take a little while, so you dash upstairs to the bassinet and put the pacifier back in the 6 month old’s mouth in a futile attempt to get him back to sleep.  When you get back downstairs less than a minute later you’ll find your 2 year old walking through the house with his pants around his ankles saying “mama, will you wipe me?” (yes, as soon as you get that poopy bottom back where it belongs!)  And of course, while you are wiping your 6 month old will wake up again.  Ahhh, the joys of motherhood…

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Xander Week 120 – We’re Potty-trained (mostly)!

June 24, 2009

If you’ve read my blog much lately, you’ll already know that we have been working hard to get Xander potty trained this summer.  He moves up to the next room at day care at the end of the summer, and the goal is to be fully potty trained before he can move.  As with every other milestone in Xander’s life, once he decided he was ready, he was completely ready and had no interest in going backwards (the same with walking, moving out of his high chair, sleeping in a big-boy bed, etc.)  We didn’t expect potty training to be any different, and it wasn’t.  While Xander was still learning the process, we used pull-ups at nap time and bed time.  It wasn’t long before Xander decided he didn’t like the bulky feeling of the pull-ups, and refused to wear them at night.  I was of course a little nervous at first, but resigned myself to washing extra bedding during the learning process.  It turns out, I didn’t need to – Xander stayed dry that whole night, and every night since then.  He’s stopped using pull-ups at day care as well!  We are finally back to having only one kid in diapers.  There are a few mornings when Xander has woken up exceptionally early needing to pee, and a few nights when he tries to prolong bedtime by asking to use the bathroom again (and again and again), but I think we’re about ready to call this potty-training project a success!

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Xander Week 116 – lrn2aimkthnksbye

May 30, 2009

Potty training continues…  Xander is nearly perfect during his waking hours at day care, and often does pretty well in the evenings with us.  We have encountered an interesting challenge though.  Xander has terrible aim!  I’m new to this whole potty training business, so I have no clue how most boys start out.  I can’t tell you if it’s typical for boys to sit when learning and then learn to stand and pee later on, or if they usually start out standing and skip the whole sitting phase.

Xander has decided he is not at all interested in sitting to pee.  Since we’re just excited that he is peeing in the vicinity of the toilet, we haven’t complained.  Unfortunately, my son has not yet figured out how to aim.  This means that even if he doesn’t have an accident, he often dribbles onto his pants, underwear, socks and/or shoes.  While at my in-laws a few evenings ago, Xander managed to spray the wall, the plunger handle, the trash can, the toilet seat and even the litter box next to the toilet and somehow managed to entirely miss the toilet bowl.  The entire time I was nearly shrieking “aim, aim in the bowl boy!” which I’m sure didn’t actually serve any useful purpose in helping him…

So, if anyone has any suggestions on how to teach my kid how to aim into the toilet, I’m all ears!  I haven’t tried the Cheerio trick yet, but perhaps next week we could give that a shot…

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