Posts Tagged ‘fetal movement’

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Baby Week 25 - Dancing Baby!

October 3, 2008

In my first pregnancy, Xander moved in what I would have called a typical manner - he would kick occasionally throughout the day, and have hiccups once in a while, but there would be hours at a time where he would be resting peacefully in utero - sleeping, floating, whatever babies do in there.  Once he came out and started to gain control of his limbs, Zach and I often described him as in “constant motion” - he never stops moving until he falls alseep.  We marveled at the amount of energy this kid has.

So, now onto pregnancy number two.  This baby moves ALL THE TIME.  Not an hour of the day goes by without some kicks and wiggles.  Sometimes they are strong enough to take my breath away.  I’ve actually learned to fall alseep to the lighter kicks, because he kicks all the time.  I’ve noticed a few bouts of hiccups, but mostly it’s just wiggling and kicking.  I think my voice and my movement used to lull Xander to sleep, but not this one - he stays awake through all of it.  And if Xander was a constant motion kid with the more average amount of movement in the womb, and he is a “constant motion kid” what will this one be like?  At least Xander slept for significant amounts of time, and wasn’t a bad sleeper when he was an infant.  I know there isn’t any way to predict it, but it worries me that this little guy doesn’t sleep for long periods of time yet…

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Baby Week 17 - Movement, VBAC Update and Downs Syndrome Testing

July 29, 2008
17 week fetus

17 week fetus

Apparently I have a lot to talk about this week, so I’ve mashed it all into one post. First, movement! I’m certain I’m now feeling movement, which is much earlier than the last time around. It’s not very regular yet, and sort of feels like that drop in your stomach when you hit a hill in a roller coaster or a steep road. I’m expecting the “kicks” to feel more like kicks in the upcoming weeks.

A VBAC update. I’ve decided to have another c-section. Ironically, it was Abby’s comment in my original post that helped me figure out what I really wanted to do. I think subconsciously I was already leaning towards c-section, but I wanted to make sure that I had carefully considered my options. Abby said that she thought with her second child she would opt for a VBAC, as she had a short-ish labor (5 hours) but a rather lengthy and painful recovery. I was the exact opposite. I had a long and miserable labor, but my recovery was quick and relatively painless. This helped me to realize that I’m much more comfortable doing that again than I am with an unpredictable labor. Those of you who know me know that I am not a spontaneous person. I like my life to be orderly and planned. In fact, I’ve already started making arrangements for my maternity leave even though it’s still over 4 months away. The idea of having everything planned before the next baby arrives is appealing and comforting to me. The thought of surgery is not overly concerning, and if my recovery is like the last one, then I should be feeling pretty good in a week or so after the event. I haven’t had a chance to discuss this with my doctors yet. My next appointment is August 21st, so hopefully they’ll be able to give me some more details at that point.

Speaking of my doctor’s appointment, I completed the “optional” additional testing my doctor’s office offers for downs syndrome and other various birth defects. The test is simply a vial of blood drawn. We did this with Xander during the last pregnancy. I stressed about it a little the last time, and started down the “what if” path. Luckily, Zach pulled me back to reality, and we decided not to even discuss other options until we had more information. Xander was of course perfect, so we never had to have discussions about “what if our child has a birth defect?” In my mind, this test was not optional for us. Regardless of the results, I want to know as much about my child as soon as possible. Even if the baby has downs syndrome, it’s something that I want to be prepared for - research, read books, talk to people and most importantly, prepare my family ahead of time. I don’t know how I would react to those faces that would initially be excited for us, and then look at us with pity. I want everyone to be happy about his baby’s arrival, and I don’t want any surprise that could have been prevented to detract from that happiness. I suppose that parents have reasons for choosing not to know - similar to those who chose to wait to find out the gender until the baby is born. I am just having a hard time figuring out why parents would make the decision not to know…

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Baby Week 16 - Fluttering, maybe??

July 25, 2008
16 Week Fetus

16 Week Fetus

I always assumed that with my second pregnancy I would be able to feel movement earlier, and I would recognize it as soon as it started. As with most assumptions, I was wrong. I remember what it felt like to have Xander bouncing around in there, but it’s hard to recall specifically what that initial movement felt like. Additionally, it’s so easy to convince myself that it was just a belly gurgle or gas or some other bodily process going on in there, and not actual fetal movement.

This past Sunday I was riding around on some pretty bumpy unpaved roads up on a mountain (that’s another story all together). I was pretty convinced that I could feel this little baby wiggling around as we rode. But, I didn’t feel much movement after that - not for a few days. Every once in a while I’ll think “maybe?” but then I’m not sure. This morning again, I thought I felt some wiggling, but it’s so faint that it’s hard to say definitively one way or another.

I’m not worried about not feeling movement yet - with Xander it was 19 weeks, and with some women it’s even later than that. They say that with your second (and later pregnancies) you feel movement sooner, partially because you know what to expect. Maybe I am feeling movement sooner, but it’s so easy to say “nah, that was something else” that I’m still not sure. I guess I’m waiting for a single definitive boot to the bladder to let me know that he or she is moving around in there.

Speaking of he or she - we have our ultrasound scheduled for August 7th at 8am. We are hoping that this child will be more cooperative than Xander was at telling us the gender prior to birth. Please keep your fingers crossed for us - this could be a huge help in the name negotiation game!

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Week 27 - Baby Hiccups

June 26, 2006

Fetus, 27 weeksAs predicted, the baby has been moving more frequently and seems to be getting stronger by the day.  This week, the baby had its first bout of hiccups (or at least the first since I’ve been able to feel movement…).  And in true child fashion, the hiccups couldn’t have happened in the middle of the day, or while I was watching tv at night - nope, the hiccups started right around 11pm, when I was just settling down to sleep.  At first, I felt the rhthmic movement and wondered what that was all about.  Then I recalled reading something about baby hiccups at Baby Center.  Of course, as I recalled the article, I remembered that they simply mentioned hiccups, as in “your baby may even have hiccups” before moving onto the next thought.  I couldn’t recall a single piece of literature that had any suggestions on how to treat baby hiccups.  Since it was Thursday, and Zach was playing video games on campus, I wasn’t able to easily tell him of this new discomfort.  So, I called his cell phone.  Zach was quite entertained at the though of my jiggling uterus, and half-heartedly suggested that I drink water while doing some jumping jacks.  Some of our other friends had some more colorful suggestions that are not worth repeating here.  In the end, I simply had to wait it out.  I don’t know if you’ve ever tried to sleep with a jiggling uterus, but I’m pretty sure that it isn’t possible.  The baby had hiccups again this week, but at least the second bout happened at work, so I was able to continue working while my uterus jiggled that time, and the hiccups were not nearly as inconvenient.  So, if anyone has any suggestions for curing baby hiccups, I would love to hear them, as I have a feeling that will not be the only time the baby thinks jiggling my uterus while I’m trying to sleep is a good idea.

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Week 16 - No movement yet

April 13, 2006

Fetus, 16 weeksAt my doctor appointment this month they started to ask me if I had felt the baby move yet. I wanted to remind both the doctor and nurse who asked me that the baby did have a significant layer of fat to kick through on my stomach, so I’m not really expecting to feel the kid for the next week or two. 16 weeks is generally the earliest one might feel movement. Although I’m not feeling anything yet, the baby is definitely moving. When the nurse put the dopplar on my stomach to listen to the heartbeat, the kid kept moving away from her. She had to chase the kid all around my stomach trying to find a spot where the baby stayed still long enough for us to hear the heartbeat. Eventually she caught up with the baby, and the heartbeat is somewhere in the 140’s, which is apparently still good. We’ve got the sonogram coming up in a few weeks, so hopefully I’ll be able to post a picture of that soon. I’m a bit worried that if the baby won’t cooperate for the dopplar, he or she also won’t cooperate with the sonogram, which could be rather frustrating for us parents who would like to know where it is a he or a she. We’ll keep our fingers crossed that the baby won’t have its legs crossed!

My baby bulge is actually starting to be in the way when I pick up things (boxes, etc.) Most people get this panicked look in their eyes when I pick something up, like if the box is too heavy the baby is going to drop out of me right there. From what I’ve gathered (research on google), lifting isn’t too much of an issue if (a) you’re having a healthy pregnancy (b) you don’t have a history of miscarriages (c) it’s safer after you’re out of your first trimester. If you could lift stuff before you were pregnant, you should be able to lift stuff while you are pregnant. That being said, I am not a medical professional, so if there are any expecting mothers reading this, please check with your own doctor and don’t take my word for it. Besides, it’s kind of nice to have everyone else do the heavy lifting for a while, so although I feel a little like an invalid when I’m told not to lift things, I do enjoy the break.

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