Posts Tagged ‘child development’

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Xander Week 87 – Gotta love the quirks

August 4, 2008

I think every kid develops their own set of entertaining and interesting quirks. Xander seems to come up with new ones every few weeks. One of his more recent and rather entertaining quirks is his fascination with trees. Sure, most kids probably find trees interesting at various points of development, that’s not out of the ordinary. Xander’s quirky little personality has decided that it is necessary to pet every tree and say “nice tree”. I’d like to be clear – we live in New Hampshire. We do not live in a city. There are plenty of trees in our back yard, there are trees surrounding our parks. There are trees at day care, and pretty much every spot that Xander inhabits has a backdrop of trees. So trees are not a new phenomena in Xander’s life. However, petting each tree, and telling it that it’s a “nice tree” is new.

I think he discovered this most recent trick when our friend’s daughter (about 9 months younger) was examining a pine tree during a recent visit. Someone said, that’s a nice tree, isn’t it? And suddenly, Xander discovered the joys of petting bark.

This becomes particularly entertaining when there is a row of trees, say in a parking lot, and Xander must pet each and every one. Of course, the entertainment value wears off quickly when suddenly you’re running late and arguing with a 2 year old why you simply don’t have time to pet each tree three times today, but maybe tomorrow we can come back and pet them again… Somehow that “tomorrow” reasoning just isn’t good enough yet ;-)

Anyway, this is one of those quirks that I expect he’ll outgrow relatively quickly, and someday I may want to look back here and be able to tease him about his desire to pet trees.

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Xander Week 73 – Following Simple Directions!

March 17, 2008

IMG_0587I feel like following simple directions is a milestone in communication with your kid. For a while now Xander has been able to get his shoes and bring them to us so we can put them on. More recently, he has started following other instructions – please help me pick up your toys, please throw this away (that’s his favorite), please help me put these clothes into the dryer, etc. At day care last week they told me “Xander is so smart!” They were specifically referring to the fact that he follows their instructions as well. I imagine that any kid who is willing to pick up after himself would quickly become a favorite ;-)

Xander’s new thing is helping to clean – he loves to help clean the tray on his high chair. For about a month now he’s been pretty specific when he’s done eating – everything must be removed from the tray. If you’re paying attention, that’s great. He’ll pick up every left over piece of food (sometimes it takes a while if we’ve had rice…) and put it back into his bowl. If you’re not paying attention, it’s a little frustrating because everything he would have handed to you ends up on the floor…

Xander’s favorite thing to clean is his face (I think it’s because he’s hoping that if he cleans it, we won’t…) Recently he’s started a very cute new habit. He’ll climb up onto the couch, up onto the arm of the couch to get to the end table where we keep Kleenex. He takes one, “wipes” his nose (mostly pats it), then he climbs off the couch, walks into the kitchen and throws the Kleenex away. If we let him, he’d continue doing this until all of the Kleenexes were gone, so I usually hide the box after one trip. It’s pretty funny to watch the whole process, and I’m not sure where this neatness came from, but I’ll take it!

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Xander Week 55 – Ahh, that independence

October 19, 2007

P1000580.JPGI think the week after Xander’s birthday, he blossomed into a toddler. It feels like one week he was still our baby – we were carrying him around, feeding him baby food with a baby spoon, and he pretty much accepted what we were doing and where we were going. Then, he learned how to walk with shoes on, and figured out that with shoes on his feet, Mom and Dad would let him walk around outside. For a few days we were able to hold his hands and he was content to walk with us, pointing out interesting things, and walking where we wanted to walk.

Then he decided that he’d had enough of being guided around – he wanted to go where he wanted to go. If we try to take his hand and point him in a different direction, he pulls out the peaceful protest move and simply picks up his legs and or just sits down. Then we are forced to pick him up and carry him which of course elicits loud screams from Xander, which makes anyone around us give us the “are you a bad parent?” glare.

The amount of change Xander has gone through in the past month or so just amazes me. It’s as usual, a bittersweet transition – we are so excited to watch him develop into his own little person. At the same time, we had just gotten comfortable with the previous setup, and as usual, we are forced to continually adapt to meet Xander’s latest development.

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Xander & Spiderman – A Match Made In Heaven?

May 4, 2007

P1010005.JPGMy friend Jenny suggested this topic, and I think it is a very interesting one to ponder. If any of you have skimmed my husband’s blog, you have noticed that it is very comic book centered. Specifically, Spiderman centered. We have boxes and boxes of Spiderman comics at our house, and every month we get more and more. Zach uses money he earns from his blog to buy comics. Since everyone knows that Zach is a Spiderman fan, they all get him Spiderman related items – from t-shirts to Christmas ornaments to shot glasses. If there is something with Spiderman on it, chances are very likely that we’ll end up with it in our possession.

So when we had a son, I became slightly concerned that we would not be able to fit all of the Spiderman memorabilia for this boy into our house. I’m still not convinced that we’ll have enough space. Zach’s new favorite toys to buy are little superhero action figures. I call them chunky because they’re only about 2 inches tall, but they’re thick and easy to grasp (if you look closely, you can see Magneto from this set in Xander’s mouth in the picture). They come in sets of three, and although Xander enjoys chewing on them, he doesn’t exactly understand their significance. I think we’ve got about 30 of these little guys now, and there are still more on Zach’s list to buy. We’ve also got a Spiderman ball, Spiderman baby bath towel, Spiderman t-shirt, Spiderman romper, and Spiderman 2-piece outfit. I will admit that I purchased the Spiderman clothing (mostly to make Zach happy). And I don’t discourage the purchasing of the action figures – they’re small and easy enough to contain, and Xander does enjoy the different colors and textures.

As far as role models go, superheros are generally good ones. My husband grew up in this world and it seems to have been a positive influence for him. I can’t imagine that I will complain too much about exposing our son to comic books and their stories, though I do worry that some of the violence will filter in before I’m ready for it… I do wonder what Xander will think of Spiderman when he grows up. Will he idolized Peter Parker as my husband did when he was a child? Will he adore everything Spiderman as our 6 year old nephew does? What will he think of comic books as he grows up? Will he ever rebel against them, think they are uncool because his dad is so in to them? It will be interesting to observe Xander’s reaction to this comic book world that he will surely grow into.

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