Comments on: Regrets? http://beingsara.com/story/regrets/ Fri, 03 Feb 2012 05:43:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: Jen http://beingsara.com/story/regrets/comment-page-1/#comment-178328 Jen Sun, 21 Mar 2010 23:12:02 +0000 http://beingsara.com/?p=628#comment-178328 Hi Sara- I had a tubal after the birth of my 2 daughters. I will never have a son. This saddens me at times. because like the previous poster, sons love their mommas. I am scared for my mother daughter issues in the future. I can only hope all will go well. I will never know what it is to have a son, or you a daughter, but I guess we are blessed to have children in general, and that makes me thankful. Hi Sara-

I had a tubal after the birth of my 2 daughters. I will never have a son. This saddens me at times. because like the previous poster, sons love their mommas. I am scared for my mother daughter issues in the future. I can only hope all will go well. I will never know what it is to have a son, or you a daughter, but I guess we are blessed to have children in general, and that makes me thankful.

]]> By: MotheringBoys http://beingsara.com/story/regrets/comment-page-1/#comment-177094 MotheringBoys Wed, 03 Feb 2010 19:33:50 +0000 http://beingsara.com/?p=628#comment-177094 As the mother of 3 boys, I know your desires. The reasoning in your mind, and the tricks we can play on our own wishes in life. I have been there and done it so many times. Find solace in knowing that just as you may miss out on having a daughter, there are many women who feel the same about having sons. There is nothing like the love between a Momma and her boys. Each side of the coin has it's pro's and con's. Thankfully, we were given tomorrows men to raise for those beautiful brides. We are raising the men who will love and cherish their wives because they see our marriages, and they love and cherish us. What a gift we will one day give those mothers of the bride and the bride. Our sons that God gave to us. They will not be gone forever. We will continue to guide them. And boy moms rule. ;) HUGS, Kathy As the mother of 3 boys, I know your desires. The reasoning in your mind, and the tricks we can play on our own wishes in life. I have been there and done it so many times. Find solace in knowing that just as you may miss out on having a daughter, there are many women who feel the same about having sons. There is nothing like the love between a Momma and her boys. Each side of the coin has it’s pro’s and con’s. Thankfully, we were given tomorrows men to raise for those beautiful brides. We are raising the men who will love and cherish their wives because they see our marriages, and they love and cherish us. What a gift we will one day give those mothers of the bride and the bride. Our sons that God gave to us. They will not be gone forever. We will continue to guide them. And boy moms rule. ;) HUGS, Kathy

]]> By: Abby Batchelder http://beingsara.com/story/regrets/comment-page-1/#comment-176886 Abby Batchelder Sat, 30 Jan 2010 03:08:27 +0000 http://beingsara.com/?p=628#comment-176886 Sara I've got tears in my eyes. I know I would feel exactly the same way if I had boys instead of girls. But as you said there are definitely highs and lows of having boys or girls. There will probably be many more "guy" things for Zach to tackle with them and you'll be off the hook. You can always hold out hope to have granddaughters to fuss over! :) Oh, and you can come over to our house in about 14 years and see if you still feel this way! :) Sara I’ve got tears in my eyes. I know I would feel exactly the same way if I had boys instead of girls. But as you said there are definitely highs and lows of having boys or girls. There will probably be many more “guy” things for Zach to tackle with them and you’ll be off the hook. You can always hold out hope to have granddaughters to fuss over! :) Oh, and you can come over to our house in about 14 years and see if you still feel this way! :)

]]> By: Her Bad Mother http://beingsara.com/story/regrets/comment-page-1/#comment-176803 Her Bad Mother Thu, 28 Jan 2010 16:43:03 +0000 http://beingsara.com/?p=628#comment-176803 I know that I would be having a much, much harder time with my longings if I had only boys or girls. Having one of both means that I don't struggle with the allure of the stuff of each gender. I so get how hard that would be. Hugs to you :) I know that I would be having a much, much harder time with my longings if I had only boys or girls. Having one of both means that I don’t struggle with the allure of the stuff of each gender. I so get how hard that would be.

Hugs to you :)

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