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Baby Week 24 - The start of the end…

September 25, 2008

I think I’ve peaked in the comfortable portion of this pregnancy, and I’m on the downward slide towards birth.  The last few days my back and all of the muscles in my lower body have started to ache.  My stomach is starting to grow more and the baby is apparently putting on about 6oz a week, and I’m really starting to feel it.  This worries me since I’ve still got 3 months and a few days to go.  If I’m already starting to feel worn, this is not a good sign.  I was hoping the energy and comfort level would last a little longer…  On the other hand, I can’t wait to meet the new guy!  Who will he look like?  Will he remind us of Xander as a baby?  Will he have a full head of hair?  What color will his eyes be?  How will Xander react to the new one?  I guess I’ll have to keep trying to remember that the payoff is definitely worth all of this pain and discomfort, but I know as the months drag on this is going to be harder and harder to do…

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Baby Week 23 - Things you should NOT say to a pregnant woman

September 18, 2008

In my first and now my second pregnancy, I’ve heard some pretty entertaining comments.  I don’t think that people say these things to me with the intention of being mean, but whatever they were intending just doesn’t seem to come out right.  I take these commments with a good dose of humor and chuckle about them later.  However, if you have any pregnant friends or family members out there, please refrain from using any of the following comments.

- “Wow, you’re really starting to show.  You’re going to be huge!”

- (these questions were fired one right after another without an opportunity to respond or escape) “Wow, you’re really getting round - how much do you weigh?  Have you gained much weight?  Don’t you weigh yourself every morning?  Are you overweight or underweight?”

- “Do we need to measure your belly and make sure you’ll fit in the car?” (asked the day before travelling to a conference together - also, I’m only 6 months pregnant at this point)

- When I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with Xander (I think I had about 2-3 weeks left before Xander was born).  Me: Hello (insert name of awful woman here), how are you today?  Awful woman gives me a once over and responds: Skinnier than you are.

I’m sure I’ll uncover more fodder for this blog post in the next few months, and I’ll post any worthy comments here as they come up.  Please feel free to share any comments of this nature that you’ve heard - they do make me chuckle ;-)

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Baby Week 22 - Back Pain & Belly Support

September 11, 2008

With this pregnancy the back pain started much earlier than with the last one.  I can remember people telling me that more back pain usually meant some painful back labor during delivery, which makes me even more glad that I’m skipping the whole “labor thing” ;-)  I decided that this time I would spend the $30 and get a belly band of some sort to help with the back pain.  After doing some research, I ended up purchasing the Mother-To-Be Maternity Support band.  There are some great features about this support band.  There are also some drawbacks.  It provides great support when I wear it.  But, the contraption comes with 3 separate pieces.  The first piece you attach sort of underneath your belly, with a velcrow strap that wraps around your back.  the second piece wraps around your back and velcrows to the first piece on your belly.  Once these two pieces are in place, your belly is pretty securly wrapped up.  This is where the great back support comes from.  There is a third strap that you can affix over your belly for additional support, but I’ve found that either I ordered a size too large, or my belly isn’t big enough yet, because this strap just doesn’t fit right now.

Unfortunately, the piece that wraps around your back goes up pretty high, and it irritated my skin.  I ended up getting some small tank tops to wear underneath the band, which works pretty well.  Then I’ve got several layers of cloth on, and in the late summer it is a bit warm for that.  I’ve also discovered that if I’m wearing maternity pants that do not have the full belly pocket, then the band tends to slip and slide around way too much.  I actually gave up on wearing it the last time I was doing housework because of this problem.

This past week my back has been doing better, and for anyone who is curious (because I’ve been asked this question at least a dozen times this week) I’m feeling great!  No more nausea, I’m sleeping pretty well, I’m feeling pretty energetic and I’m enjoying the good times while they last ;-)  So I haven’t been wearing the support band this week, though I suspect as my belly grows and the weather gets cooler I will go back to wearing it…

If anyone else has any suggestions for good belly/back support systems, I’d love to hear about them!

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Baby Week 21 - We have a due date!

September 2, 2008

I had my 20 week appointment last week and told my doctor that I have decided to c-section.  We picked a date - yay!  December 30th is baby #2’s birthday.  It’s funny, when I tell people this is the day I’m having my baby, they all say to me - “oh, maybe you’ll have a Christmas baby”.  Then I launch into the explanation about how my first baby was exactly on time, and how my “official due date” isn’t until January 5th, so unless something goes horribly wrong, I’m not expecting any more children until December 30th - period.  Honestly, I would rather have more time in between holidays before the baby’s birthday, but there is only so much I can do about that.  

I am quite happy to have a date - I’ve officially arranged the dates for my maternity leave, and made arrangements for family to watch Xander during and just after the birth.  With Xander, I didn’t know the gender or when the baby would be coming and with this one I know as much information as I possibly can prior to the birth.  It’s a very different experience - a lot less guessing, but for this type-a personality mom, it’s quite nice to be able to plan things in advance :-)

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Baby Week 20 - Ug, Pregnancy Brain!!

August 20, 2008
20 week fetus

20 week fetus

I am a type A personality.  I like structure and orginization.  I make lists, and I follow up on questions.  I rarely forget the details.  That is, until now…  My hormones are driving me nuts now!  I can’t remember even the simplest tasks.  Sometimes I’ll have a conversation with someone, and completely forget about it by the next day - it’s like de ja vu to them, but it’s an entirely new conversation to me.  Others at work have noticed too.  I’m more forgetful and scattered these day.  I’ve started making myself lists at work - lists of things I need to at work, lists of things I need to do at home and lists of things I need to talk about with Zach.  Of course, I keep forgetting my home lists at work, so that doesn’t always work out in my favor…  So far, this has been the most irritating pregnancy side effect.  The nausea was the most miserable, but at least it didn’t effect my professional relationships, and I was still able to remember everything that I needed to get done.  Now I just look like a ditz with a round belly.  I don’t know if this symptom will eventually go away like the others, or if I’m doomed to another four plus months of being the pregnant idiot…