Archive for the ‘Pregnancy Posts’ Category

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Post pregnancy weight loss

March 26, 2009

I rarely discuss weight on my blog – mostly because I’m not usually happy with mine.  With Xander, I gained about 30 pounds, and it took me a while to get back to my normal weight.  Even after I was back to “normal”, my body had shifted from pregnancy.  There was flab where there hadn’t been flab before.  Things seemed to have permanently shifted on me (like my belly button which will never be the same).  Since I knew I wanted another baby, and I didn’t want to wait too many years before having one, I didn’t feel overly motivated to work hard to lose weight knowing that I’d be doing it all over again in a few years.

With Parker, I only gained about 20 pounds.  I didn’t do much differently in this pregnancy, other than chase a 2 year old around of course ;-)   Somehow, I was back into pre-pregnancy clothes about 3 weeks after he was born.  When I went back for my 6 week checkup (I was rescheduled, so it was really 8 weeks), I had dropped 10 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight.  This was super encouraging!  Without any real effort, I had somehow shed 10 pounds!  Of course, I have no idea where those 10 pounds disappeared from, since I was still the same pant and shirt size as I was before.

Now, about a month later, I’ve lost another 9 pounds – almost 20 pounds less than what I was before I became pregnant.  This is definitely cause for celebration, but again, I haven’t dropped the weight anywhere I notice it – still in the same pants and shirts…  Still have that irritating baby flab (more so now that I’ve gone through 2 pregnancies).  Quite a few people have commented on my weight loss, but I still can’t see it.

So, in entirely a-typical fashion, I’ve dropped 40 pounds in 3 months, but other than the large baby bump that was Parker, I have no idea where the weight disappered from.  I also haven’t done anything differently – still drinking completely fatty soda, still eating an occasional chocolate, still putting lots of sugar in my tea…  I’m very excited to be loosing weight, and can only attribute it to breastfeeding and less eating out.  As the weather warms up, I’m hoping to get out more, take walks with the boys, etc. and hopefully continue my weightloss and maybe then I’ll start to notice the changes that everyone else is seeing…

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Baby Week 35 – Ok, I’m done

December 5, 2008

Conveniently, my belly button popped out over Thanksgiving weekend.  That was also about the time I realized that I’ve had enough of being pregnant.  It took me a lot longer to reach the “I’m done” phase this time around – my first trimester was worse, but the rest has all been much more comfortable overall (a very pleasant surprise).  But now, I’m feeling huge, and most my my days and nights are spent searching for relief from discomfort.  I get sore if I sit too long, stand too long, lay in the same position too long, etc.  Then I find a comfortable position, and that lasts for 10-15 minutes before I’m uncomfortable again, and searching for a new position.  I’m certain it’s driving my husband nuts at night when I “sleep” (mostly roll from side to side all night long).  I toss and turn, waking him up, and more often than not, stealing the covers from his side of the bed (he hates that…)

So, I’m done.  I know I’ll miss some of the perks of pregnancy – everyone holding doors, the ability to have a huge gut without guilt, a built in conversational topic, etc.  On the other hand, I am so ready to have my body back – to be able to wash dishes without having to stand so far away from the sink, clothes that aren’t all stained on the belly, more comfortable positions for sitting/sleeping.

My belly button popped.  If I were a turkey, that would be a clear indication that I’ve been cooking long enough.  Unfortunately, I’ve still got 3+ weeks to go, and sooooo much Christmas stuff to squeeze into that time.  I want the 30th to arrive tomorrow, but I’m most definitely not ready for the 25th to arrive anytime soon – such a conundrum ;-)

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Baby Week 33 – Memo To My Uterus

December 4, 2008

Re: Current Project

Hello Uterus, we are currently working on a project similar to the one we completed in September of 2006.  As you may recall, the final presentation for that project did not turn out as we had planned.  In light of the previous project, we have decided to take an alternate route for the upcoming presentation.  While I can appreciate the prep work you are doing for this current project, it is unnecessary.  Braxton Hicks are a great training exercise for women who plan to go through labor.  We however, will not be going through labor, so the Braxton Hicks contractions are not helpful this time – merely an uncomfortable distraction.  Please feel free to end your prep work at any time.

Thank you for your attention to this matter.

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Baby Week 32 – Feeling Those Feet!

November 21, 2008
Image from http://aconn73.wordpress.com/2006/12/09/pregnancy-is-a-wonderful-experience/

Image from http://aconn73.wordpress.com/2006/12/09/pregnancy-is-a-wonderful-experience/

At one of my recent doctor visits I mentioned that I was feeling significantly more movement from this baby than I had with the first.  It wasn’t really a complaint, more of an observation.  My doctor suggested that perhaps I was feeling more because my uterine wall had thinned after the first pregnancy, so I was able to feel movement more often than I had with Xander.  “Ok, I thought, that makes sense.”

After I left, I continued to ponder this theory, and it seemed to make even more sense – Xander’s kicks, while strong at times were never painful.  This little guy is able to take my breath away and stop me in my tracks with just one well placed foot or elbow.  I guess Xander really did do a good job thinning out that uterine wall, because I’m much more sensitive to movement this time around.

It’s sort of a double edged sword sort of situation – I love feeling the baby kick, knowing that he’s moving and doing well in there, and that I should enjoy these movements, because they are likely the last I will ever feel like this…  On the other hand, there are moments when I would love some peace and quiet, just a few minutes without hiccups or kicks, but it’s not like I can reason or plead with the kid yet.

The image here is not my belly – though there are times when you can see it rolling in a manner similar to Alien.  However, that little foot is an excellent portrayal of how I feel 45% of my day.

So, for the next few weeks I’m doing my best to enjoy the movement as much as possible and hope that the schedule he’s developed in the womb is vastly different from the one that we’ll have once he gets out ;-)

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Baby Week 31 – Tired of the Crumb Catcher

November 20, 2008
From bibswithdignigy.com

From bibswithdignigy.com

Anyone who has had a sufficiently large belly can sympathize with me on this – it becomes a magnet for crumbs and other foods.  Lately I’ve noticed that there is one particular spot on my baby bump that is more “magnetic” than the rest slightly to the right and slightly above my former belly button (I say former, because these days it’s pretty much a flat spot that used to be an indentation once long ago).

The reason I’ve noticed this particular spot more than others is because almost every day for the past week I get to work, take off my coat, put on my ID badge, and discover a tiny, darkened stain in this exact spot.  Each morning I sigh in exasporation because I failed to notice the spot when I could have actually treated the stain and before I dried the shirt thus making it a permanent addition…

Additionally, I’ve got a very limited wardrobe this time around – I don’t have many long sleeve maternity shirts, and I refust to spend much money on any of them because in a little over a month I’ll never wear them again.  So now my entire winter weather maternity wardrobe is officially stained – I know it’s part of the pregnancy gig – maybe I should just give up and start wearing a bib ;-)