Archive for July, 2010

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This Boy…

July 29, 2010

Xander checking out some birdsThe boy in this picture – he moves to a preschool classroom tomorrow.  He starts skating lessons on Tuesday.  He can pluck anything he wants off counter tops.  He likes to have privacy while using the potty, but still wants help getting dressed.  He loves his new swing set but doesn’t really want to play outside by himself yet.  This boy will have a sleepover with his best friend or any family member anytime he can and asks just about every morning “what are we doing today?”  This boy has the sweetest disposition ever.  He dotes on his younger brother, looks out for him, plays with him and loves him without any prompting from his parents.  He can also be a little shy and timid in new situations.  This boy will be 4 years old in 53 days.

This boy can’t possibly be the boy that I just gave birth to – it can’t possibly be almost 4 years ago now.

Our first day

Our first day


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Changes…

July 26, 2010

I got the job I applied for.  I’m am beyond excited about it.  The new job got me thinking about the past several years. Here is a quick timeline:

2002 – Graduated college, moved out of state, got two new jobs, got engaged

2003 – Married, another 2 new jobs, bought a house!

2006 – Baby! Also, another new job

2007 – Another new job (yeah, I’ve had a few…) and a new car

2008 – Another baby!

2009 – Sold the house, sold the car and bought a new (used) one and got a new job (again…)

2010 – Bought a new house!  We plan to be there for a loooong time.  Also, another new job.  But, I plan to stay here for a loooong time as well.

So the past 7 years have had lots of life changes.  But there are no new babies.  There will be no new house or car purchases or job changes in the foreseeable future.  So what do you think, will I get bored without change?

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Stress and Frustration

July 14, 2010

I attempted a pretty big life-changing move a few weeks ago.  I’m pretty sure I failed.  However I don’t know that for certain and the stress over waiting is damn near driving me insane.  I just want to know one way or another.  If I did indeed fail, if I am doomed to be a “secretary” for the next 50 years then I like to know so that I can spend a day (or two) wallowing in self pity and crying into a big tub of ice cream.  If I didn’t fail, then damn, tell me already!  I thought I did well, I worked so hard.  I wanted it with every fiber of my being.  I prayed for days (still am, on the very off chance that I didn’t fail).  Every day that passes solidifies my belief that I failed, but since no one is allowed to (or has the balls to? I’m not quite sure which) to tell me what the decision was, I instead sit here, a big giant stress ball waiting for the phone to ring, or not…

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Dear American Red Cross,

July 7, 2010

I am a busy lady.  I work full time and when I’m not at work I’m chasing my 1 and 3 year old boys around the house.  So.  If you want my blood, I am happy to donate it.

When you tell me that I can’t lift anything heavier than 10 pounds for 6 hours after donating blood, I believe you.  I don’t want to rearrange my entire day around a blood donation but I do.  I do it because I believed that you needed it.  That there are people in dire need of donated blood. I don’t particularly enjoy the arm stick or the colossal amount of time it takes for a 15 minute donation, but I do it because I thought it was a good thing, something to help the greater good.

Advertising a blood drive at a local church and then changing the location at the last minute with just a sign on the door?  Not cool.  But, I had reserved my 1 hour lunch break for blood donation, so I hopped in my car and drove to your updated location.  Only to find out that if I didn’t make an appointment (who the hell makes an appointment to donate blood?) then you can’t see me until 3:45.  Well guess what?  I’ve already wasted my lunch break trying to find you.  I don’t have time to go back at 3:45.  And after work?  I’ll have 2 kids with me, and as the oh-so-unfriendly sign on the side of your mobile unit says, they aren’t allowed in the bus (not that I would be insane enough to try to take them with me in the first place).

That sucked, wasting my lunch break for that.  But you know what really, really pisses me off?  The fact that you called my cell phone and asked me to come to this blood drive.  You. Called. Me.  You asked for my blood.  You gave me the date, time and location and asked me to come.  What the hell is wrong with you???  You ask me to come, and even though I had to jump through hoop after hoop I went.  And when I finally got there, you told me thanks but no thanks.

Well screw you.  It’s going to be a few cycles before I’m willing to consider jumping through your hoops again.  And if you are brave enough to actually call me again, be prepared for a lengthy rant on your inconsiderate and rude business practices.