Archive for September, 2007

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Alexander Tirrell – A Year In Review

September 20, 2007

Our first year together started at 6:39 pm on Wednesday, September 20th, 2006. It was an exhausting meeting for all parties involved – mostly because it took us 36 hours to get there! But the first meeting was wonderful, and the newest addition to our family was absolutely adorable.

Xander and SaraThe first 3 months had some ups and downs – it took us a while to get a good sleeping schedule figured out (about 6 months…) and a while to get a good feeding schedule figured out (about 4 months, and then a month later, Xander weaned himself…) But all-in-all, we were quite pleased and surprised at how lucky we had gotten with our son. He didn’t cry excessively, he loved to stand, he hated tummy time, but he loved to cuddle. He had crazy, unmanageable hair, and the cutest face we’d ever seen.

XanderAt 4 months Xander started day care. They whipped him into shape in a hurry. In no time, he had a great schedule, slept well during the day, and was easier to predict when he would eat both day and night. His hair was still a little crazy, but we were starting to figure it out. The holidays were fast approaching, and we spent lots of quality time with family for a few weeks. Xander still hated tummy time, but he started to sit up on his own. Almost immediately after figuring out how to sit up, he started to bounce – especially when he heard music – this is still one of my favorite Xander quirks. About this time Xander really started to develop his personality. He began to drool like crazy, and teeth started to poke through shortly after. Toys became fun, and he slowly started to entertain himself. Bath time in the sink without the baby tub was also fun (until he started splashing everything and every one in a 5 foot radius…). We left him with family for the first significant amount of time at the end of his 5th month. A week away – he did well, but boy were we happy to be reunited!

P1000672.JPGMonths 6-9 brought all kinds of exciting developmental milestones. Xander finally figured out how to roll over, and in what seemed like no time at all, he was crawling! Mobility made a huge difference for the little guy, and he began to enjoy having some control over where he was going. Food was also an adventure. Rice cereal was never a big hit in our house, but with a little trial and error we found plenty of exciting foods that Xander would eat.

P1000580.JPG9-12 months has been a perfection of some old skills, and addition of a few new ones. Now that Xander is getting better with textured food we’ve begun a game – what won’t Xander eat? So far, we haven’t found anything (that is in the approved list of baby foods of course) that he won’t eat – we’ve tried lemons, onions, cucumbers, tomatoes, celery, pasta, garlic flavored pasta, rice, hamburg, oranges, bananas, apples, and lots of other foods that I can’t think of at the moment. So far, he’ll eat anything! As Xander got faster and more experienced with crawling, he soon discovered that stairs are lots of fun :-) If you’ve read my blog much, then you might have heard that last month Xander started walking – very exciting. Now we are shifting from having a baby to having a toddler. Xander is bathing in the bath tub now. He’s eating adult food and drinking milk instead of formula. We’re still adjusting to having a little boy in the house instead of a baby, but we’re learning and loving it! It’s been a heck of a year, quite an education, and I consider myself incredibly lucky that everything has gone so smoothly!

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Xander’s First Bloody Nose…

September 15, 2007

Bloody NoseThis was one of those instances where even though there was absolutely nothing you could do to prevent it, you still feel like a bad parent. We were at the in-law’s house, and I was playing with Xander on the floor. He crawled away, so I crawled after him. Eventually, I stretched out on the floor on my stomach, and Xander crawled back to me. He used my back to stand up, and thought that was pretty funny. Then, he lunged forward, and of course I couldn’t see well or reach him, and he plunged his face into the linoleum floor.

He cried of course, but I didn’t realize anything was wrong until I picked him up and there was blood in his mouth and on his upper lip. For a few minutes, we couldn’t figure out if he had bit his lip, or bumped his nose, but eventually we were able to track down the source. Xander continued crying for quite a while, and we managed to sop up most of the blood. I got some on my clothes, and he got a little on his pants, but over all, it wasn’t as messy as it could have been. Nevertheless, I felt awful. Xander got his first bloody nose on my watch, the poor little guy.

Of course, with Zach and me for parents, he’s probably doomed to plenty of other injuries throughout his childhood, we can’t put him in a bubble, so I guess we’ll just have to take the knocks as they come…


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Xander Week 52 – Officialy Walking!

September 13, 2007


I know a few weeks ago I said that Xander had taken his first steps, which is true. But we had a tough time convincing Xander to take anymore steps, and the ones that he did take were incredibly unstable. Then last week he finally got his balance under control and set off across the living room! The first time he did it, I was in the shower, and Zach watched him take 17 steps. Since then he’s toddling all over the place, though when he really wants to get somewhere, he uses crawling as his preferred mode of travel.
I’ve got to say that watching Xander walk is one of the cutest things I’ve seen so far, and he seems so proud of himself. Often he sticks his tongue out, maybe for concentration, or perhaps just excitement, but either way it’s super cute. Now we’re trying to practice in shoes, but that’s a bit slower going, as Xander’s balance still isn’t great yet. At any rate, he officially started walking at 11 months, and I’m sure it won’t be long before we’ll be chasing after the little guy!babies, baby, baby steps, baby walking, development, developmental milestones, first steps, mother, motherhood, mothers, parent, parenting, parents, toddler, toddling, walking

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Xander Week 51 – LUVS Second Attempt

September 12, 2007

bear-hug.jpgA few weeks ago a representative from RocketXL contacted me, asking me to try the new LUVS Bear Hug diapers. Since we haven’t used LUVS since Xander was in Size 1’s, I said sure I’d give them a shot. A few weeks later, a free package of LUVS showed up on our doorstep (hooray for free diapers!) I was eager to try out these new diapers, and the following night, we began our second attempt with LUVS.

One of the biggest tests for us is whether or not Xander will pee through the diaper and thus onto bedding in the night. Often we will try to change Xander’s diaper around 9:30 pm to prevent a leak in the middle of the night. The first LUVS diaper we put on Xander leaked around 3:00 am. It was Zach’s turn to get up and change Xander, and though I was half asleep, it seemed to take longer than it should have.

Zach and Xander finally returned, and Zach was not pleased. He first attempted to figure out where the leak had occurred in the diaper, as he knew I was preparing to write a review. He then changed Xander into a fresh LUVS diaper, at which point Xander promptly peed out of the top – the absorbent material didn’t even slow down the stream. Zach immediately removed, that diaper, chucked the LUVS diapers across the room, put a fresh Huggies diaper on Xander, and proceeded to clean up the floor for 10 feet where Xander had managed to spray. Needless to say, Zach refuses to use LUVS diapers again.

The new “hug” technology does seem nice – it’s very similar to the stretchy material around the Huggie tabs. Maybe for girls the blue strip of absorbent material does actually stop leaks, but Xander has proved very effective at getting around this material in the LUVS diapers. It was nice to see Blue’s Clues instead of Winnie the Pooh for a while, as the pictures get old on the same diapers after a while, but Xander doesn’t ever notice.

So, I know LUVS is trying to drum up renewed interest in their new diaper technology, and there do seem to be some slight improvements, and the price is of course better than Huggies or Pampers, but the cost savings does not outweigh the added irritation. If anyone else has had any experience with these diapers, I’d love to hear about it!

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Mid-State Health Center Fails to Help

September 10, 2007

This is a little off the topic of babies, but I had a rotten experience, and I need to rant a little. For those of you who don’t know, I live near Plymouth, NH. For five years I have used Dr. Rosen as my primary care physician. I have never actually met Dr. Rosen, I simply picked him out of a list of available doctors from my insurance company.

The office that Dr. Rosen works in has grown and changed its name to Mid-State Health Center. I don’t need their services very often, but occasionally I get a sinus infection, or some other mild ailment that requires the attention of an expert. At Mid-State Health I have never met with the same doctor twice. The don’t remember me from visit to visit, and even the support staff seems to change every time I go in there.

I visited Mid-State Health in May to talk about my allergies. I met with a doctor who spoke exactly 10 words in English. He brought in his laptop, checked off my symptoms, and then wrote me a prescription. We did not talk about how allergies affected me, or why I thought I had allergies and not a cold. He didn’t even explain to me why he had written two prescriptions (one for Allegra and one for Floanase). The nasal spray is still unopened in my medicine cabinet. I thought overall this visit was pretty terrible, and could have potentially turned out poorly, if this physician who didn’t speak English misunderstood something I said, or if I had an allergy to something, etc. I left there completely unsatisfied, thought at least my allergies would hopefully calm down with the prescription medication.

Today, I needed their help again. I somehow injured my thumb on my right hand over the weekend. It aches all the time, and I’ve lost strength in it – I can’t even pick up a glass of water, let alone my 22 lb. baby. So, I started calling Mid-State Health Center at 8:30 this morning. With each attempt, I was told that the receptionist was on the phone, and that I could leave a message – they wouldn’t even let me wait on hold! Finally I got through and made an appointment for 11:15. I just started a new job, where I am paid by the hour. So, I got there for my appointment, and waited for 25 minutes. I finally asked the receptionist how much longer I would need to wait. The receptionist located the assistant for my doctor for the day, and found out that I would have to wait for another hour, on top of the nearly 1/2 hour I had already waited. Panicked, I rescheduled for tomorrow afternoon, got my co-pay refunded, and left in tears.

I can hardly pick up my son, and I just needed someone to tell me what is wrong, and how I can fix it, and this place not only failed me, but also damaged my work schedule two days in a row. Mid-State Health Center is an overly large medical office with clearly too many patients and not enough time to give anyone the attention they deserve. As soon as I possibly can, I will be switching away from Mid-State Health Center, and I will strongly encourage anyone thinking of using them to find a different doctor!