Archive for May, 2007

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Xander Week 36 – Little Faker

May 22, 2007

P1000671.JPGXander discovered a new sound this week – a fake cough. So, he’ll be sitting in his high chair, or playing on the floor and maybe you won’t be looking at him, or interacting with him for a moment, and then all of a sudden you hear “ah ah ah ahhh ah ah”. So you turn to look, thinking “oh my gosh, is he choking?” Nope, he’s smiling at you, just trying to get your attention. What a little faker! I must admit, mimicking the sound back to him elicits an even bigger grin, which is entirely worth it. I’ve also discovered that Xander uses this new sound as a warning signal – “you’re irritating me somehow, and I’ll use my fake cough to warn you that if you don’t cut it out, I’m going to full on wail.”

It’s hard to believe that eight months have gone by – it feels like just yesterday we were coming home from the hospital. I can’t believe how fast Xander has grown, and at the same time, it feels like when you’re waiting for a developmental milestone, it takes forever to arrive. It’s been quite a rollercoaster so far, but a smile or baby giggle makes it all feel like a piece of cake.

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Xander Week 35 – Ear Infection 2.0

May 17, 2007

P1000673.JPGXander had another ear infection last week (his second in his short little lifespan). Our doctor prescribed amoxicillin, which worked just fine for the last ear infection. So we started Xander on his 10-day treatment last Thursday. He very quickly decided that he hates that bubblegum flavor with a passion, and will not open his lips when the pink dropper gets anywhere near him. Who knew babies that young could purse their lips?!?

So we are on day 7 of the 10 day prescription. Xander is feeling much better and I’m pretty sure his ear isn’t bothering him anymore. I understand the need to continue with the full course of antibiotics to make sure that he doesn’t build up an immunity, etc., and I’m certainly not suggesting that we are going to stop giving him the medicine early. Unfortunately, Xander has developed a rather unpleasant side-effect. For the last three days he has had nearly explosive diarrhea. Luckily for me, the day care has experienced most of this – he’s been going through 3 outfits a day there (on a side note, we don’t usually have accidents at the day care – when this all started, he still had 3 month clothes in his cubby – they couldn’t even button his onsie…). A few nights ago I was the unlucky recipient of some excess poo, when he leaked out of his onsie, out of his shirt and pants, and onto my jeans – yuck!

Needless to say, it has been a poop-filled week. I’m not a huge fan of the increased laundry, but I’m more worried about Xander becoming dehydrated. He also seems to get a little fussy before an explosion, as if his stomach is bothering him. We didn’t have this problem with the amoxicillin during the last ear infection, so I was surprised when this started happening. In conversations with other mothers, apparently this is a common side effect.

If this is what we can expect from amoxcillin from now on, I’m going to have to buy Xander some more clothes! Luckily, a follow-up visit to Xander’s doctor showed that his ear is much better, and that we can stop the amoxcillin early. The doctor also recommended giving Xander some yogurt to try and calm down the diarrhea, so we’ll see if that helps.

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Happy Mother’s Day!

May 16, 2007

P1000980.JPGOk, so the post is a few days late, but I’ve got a baby and a full time job, so I think I’m still in the safe zone ;-)

Several weeks ago a few of the regular readers/commenters asked me about my mother-in-law. As the stereo-type goes, some people seem to have quite a bit of difficulty with their in-law’s, and asked if I had any advice. I am one of the lucky few who actually enjoys her mother-in-law’s company. Xander is her fourth grandchild, and as with the other three, he thinks she is great. She is always happy to help whenever she is free, and although she offers suggestions and advice, she never interferes in Zach’s and my parenting style. Honestly, I couldn’t ask for a better mother-in-law.

Similarly my own mother is pretty awesome. Don’t get me wrong – we definitely had our battles growing up, but I appreciate her wisdom and advice these days. She is also excellent with my son, and I haven’t seen her be silly and make a baby laugh like that in years – it’s really great to watch. All in all, I’m really darn lucky in the parent/in-law area. Both mothers are wonderful examples of parents – and I learn more from them every time we visit.

Thus, I don’t have much good advice for dealing with challenging in-laws, though there are plenty of sites that have recommendations such as Baby Center and Baby.com.  A simple search for mother-in-law brings up more articles than I would have expected. I would encourage anyone to do two things when having challenges with an in-law. First, consult your spouse. The last thing you need is friction between you two when there is already friction between you and an in-law. Second, address the problem somehow. If you just let it fester, you’ll be resentful, and they might sense that something is wrong, and the issue will never be resolved. It may turn out that a conversation with your spouse resolves the issue and helps you to better understand an in-law’s motivation. Other situations may require a heart-to-heart with the individual in question.

I would love to hear some input from anyone who has some experience with a challenging in-law – I’m sure there are plenty of people out there with some more practical wisdom than mine ;-)

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Roll Over!!

May 9, 2007

P1000816.JPGIf you are a regular reader of my blog (or a friend or family member who talks to me regularly), then you’ll know that Xander’s lack of interest in rolling has been a source of frustration for me. When he was 3 months old, I was all ready for it. When he passed 4 months and still refused, I was a little concerned. At 6 months when he continued to fuss and cry when on his belly, and still wouldn’t roll on his own, I started to worry. Our doctor allieviated most of my concerns – Xander was on target for every other developmental milestone, and according to him, some babies skip rolling over, and sometimes even crawling.

So, I mostly stopped worrying, and didn’t focus so much on it while playing with Xander. Then yesterday Xander rolled over all by himself! He was lying on his back on the floor and we were playing with some of his toys – he saw a toy he wanted over to his side (so I dangled it out of his reach), and he rolled over to get it! I was so surprised, and so excited for him :-) Once he’s on his belly he can push up and get into a crawling position, but his muscles aren’t strong enough to hold him up there very long, and he still really doesn’t enjoy being on his stomach, so it doesn’t take long before he gets frustrated, then upset, and then really angry if we don’t pick him up.

Unfortunately Zach wasn’t home for this initial roll over, but Xander did show off his new accomplishment this morning for Zach, so that was nice. I suppose it won’t be long now before Xander is getting into everything, and I imagine that the word “no” will soon become a household staple…

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Xander Week 34 – Surprise, I’ve got teeth!

May 8, 2007

P1000741.JPGLast weekend Xander visited with my parents and sister at their house. Zach and I had made lots of plans for a kid-free weekend, and when offered the opportunity, we jumped on it. In a previous post I had mentioned that Xander is starting to grow teeth on the top of his mouth – which is slightly backwards from most kids, who grow their bottom teeth first. We weren’t overly concerned with this, and though you could definitely feel the start of something coming through his gums, the progress has been slow.

When I picked Xander up from my parents on Sunday, I was shocked to discover two little teeth poking through his bottom gum! They still have some growing to do, but they are much farther along than the upper teeth, and we hadn’t even noticed them! Now when Xander puts my finger in his mouth to ease his gum discomfort, it’s actually a little painful. I suppose now we’re going to have to work on the “no, we don’t bite people” routine. At any rate, it’s just another exciting development in the always adventurous baby-land.

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