Archive for January, 2007

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Xander Week 17 – Baby Clothes Addiction

January 16, 2007

Bathtime for XanderI don’t know how many people share this addiction with me, but I have found that when I am in a baby clothing store, I can’t resist buying things! I think it’s a bit of an addiction. I used to love buying clothes for myself, and my closets and dressers can attest to the piles of clothing that I already have. But now I get a bigger kick out of buying things for Xander, and of course, dressing him up in the new adorable outfits I’ve found ;-) I also think that these stores are pretty smart – when they sell things for $5, I think, wow, that’s a great deal! Then I end up spending $60 in $5-$10 outfits… So, I’m not sure how to address this addiction, other than to avoid those stores as much as possible. I’m also not sure how long this addiction will last. I can’t imagine that it’s much fun to buy clothes for a teenage boy – especially since they tend to have very different opinions on style than I do. On the other hand, I also couldn’t resist buying an outfit for friends of ours who are having a baby in the spring, so if friends continue to have babies, maybe I’ll continue to buy baby clothes… I also can’t resist peeking through the baby section in department stores, but I’d like to think that I do a little bit better at containing myself there. Part of me wonders if I should enjoy this stage while it lasts – I’m certain that I won’t be able to dress up my little boy for very long before he has some opinions on what he wants to wear… I guess I’ll just have to keep my eyes peels for sales, and continue to avoid those stores unless it’s absolutely necessary (like when Xander goes up a size).

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Ahh, That Hair…

January 12, 2007

XanderI’m sure you’ve noticed from the pictures, and for those of you who have met Xander, his hair is a little crazy. Since we brought him home and began washing his hair, we’ve been fighting with it.

Xander

Whenever it’s wet, it stays where it’s supposed to – parted in the middle or on a side. But, as soon as it dries, it poofs straight up. Whenever someone meets Xander for the first time, inevitably their first comment is “oh, look at that hair!”

Smiling XanderOver Christmas break I finally gave up fighting with Xander’s hair and decided to brush it the way that it flows – all straight forward. The nurse in the hospital did this, and although I think it looks fine, Zach thinks it looks dorky. Unfortunately for Zach, this is the only style that doesn’t create a crazy poof on the top of Xander’s head, so dorky or not, this is his style until he gets older and we can hopefully do something else with it ;-)

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Xander Week 16 – Day Care Woes & Worries

January 11, 2007

Xander & SaraFirst, I apologize for the delay in posts – I’ve been home with Xander for the past 2 weeks, and he has been rather demanding of my time, leaving very little time to do anything, and cleaning the house unfortunately took priority over blogging…  This morning Xander is having a trial run at day care in preparation for next week when he starts full time.

I still love the day care that we found – they have an excellent set up, and have been doing this for years, so they’ve got their routines figured out.  Xander is in a room with 3 other babies, and one staff member devoted to watching the four of them.  She is great, and I know that Xander will get an adequate amount of attention there, but it won’t the be one-on-one attention that he gets at home.  He’ll probably have times where he cries longer before someone meets his needs, and he won’t have someone to entertain him all day.

On the other hand, he’ll have lots of interaction with other children, and he’ll get some time with an experienced care-giver who can perhaps convince him that “tummy time” isn’t the end of the world.  I’m sure he’ll have 20 colds before the season is over, but his immune system will be stronger eventually.  There are lots of positives to day care to balance out the negatives, but it is still sad for me to have to send him there.

The huge thing we are struggling with now is sleep.  Zach and I are both working next week.  Though Xander has proven that he can sleep through the night, he has had absolutely no interest in doing so this week.  This week has actually been worse than the past month.  Xander has been waking up around 2 or 3am to eat, and then he wakes up every hour or two after that to snack some more.  I’m hoping he’s just having a growth spurt, and he’ll be back to a more reasonable schedule soon.  If not, then Zach and I are both going to be very tired starting next week.

I’m curious to hear from working parents how they resolved this issue – who sleeps and who doesn’t?  Do you take turns?  If so, what is that schedule like?  Does someone get up with the baby for a whole week, and then the other parent the following week?  Or do you swap every other night?  Are there any other solutions out there?  It seems silly for both Zach and me to loose the same amount of sleep every night, but it doesn’t seem fair for one of us to be put on permanent night duty.   And what is best for Xander?  Right now he’s sleeping in his bassinet in our room, but soon he will outgrow the bassinet and be upgraded to the crib in his room.  I’m not sure how he will sleep in a room by himself, and getting up to tend to him in the night is a much bigger investment when you actually have to get out of bed…  I guess these are all things that we will work out in time, but I’d love to hear suggestions from anyone who has any ideas on how we can resolve this particular issue.  Thanks!

baby, babies, infant, parenting, working parent, working parents, baby sleep, baby routine, sleeping through night

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Xander Week 15 – Why Won’t You Cooperate?

January 3, 2007

Wind Blown XanderI think that everyone knows how much babies enjoy making their parents sound like complete idiots when talking about what their kids can do.  For example, Xander has this really cute “trick” where if you blow on his face, he sticks out his tongue, blinks quickly and wiggles his whole body – it’s really quite adorable (see picture).  When I told my in-law’s about this, and then tried to show them, Xander just looked at me like I was completely insane.  I think most parents have experienced this at one point or another, but it’s always frustrating.

On New Year’s Eve we had our friends over.  Some of our friends had yet to meet Xander, but they had all heard about him, and that we had been having a good time with him, and that we thought he was a pretty easy baby.  At about 6:30pm on New Year’s Eve Xander decided to start crying.  He didn’t stop until about 8:30pm, and even after that he continued to be fussy throughout the night.  I kept telling everyone that he wasn’t usually like this, that he’s generally a happy baby, etc., but I could see the looks of disbelief when I talked about this.  To add insult to injury, one of our friends brought their 6 month old son over, and he was entirely well behaved – he didn’t really cry at all that night.  Xander finally went to sleep around 10pm, and slept through the rest of the entirely loud party, which was impressive, but I don’t think many people noticed that ;-)

So, I’m sure it’ll happen many, many more times, and each time I will be frustrated when Xander does things that are not consistent with what we expect, or won’t cooperate when I want to show off his latest exciting development.

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Merry Christmas!

January 2, 2007

Xander ClausOur little family had a wonderful Christmas this year. The celebration started on the 23rd and didn’t end until the evening of the 25th. It was filled with family and friends and generosity all around.

Though Xander didn’t really realize it, he had a very good Christmas. I think I will always remember it as the easiest Christmas we will have. I didn’t have to hide any of his gifts – they stayed on the kitchen table for weeks before I wrapped them. I didn’t need to stay up late wrapping gifts on Christmas eve, everything was wrapped well in advance. I didn’t need to worry about what gifts Santa was bringing, and which ones came from Zach and me. And, I didn’t need to worry about where to hang stockings, or what to put in them.

I think next Christmas will be very different from this one, and from every one that Zach and I have had together, but I’m sure that we’ll enjoy Xander actually being able to open his own gifts (we didn’t really have a strategy for who would open Xander’s gifts this year, and he wasn’t at all interested in helping).

I hope that everyone out there had an equally wonderful Christmas and enjoyed the time that they had with friends and family!

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